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sacrifice
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if
you are the one being sacrificed in the dream:
1) you may have a hidden 'martyr complex', where you
compulsively punish yourself. to fix this, you need
to positively recondition yourself to love yourself.
2) it may be a message from the unconscious to let your
old self die so your true self can come forward and
be expressed.
3) perhaps you are being abused by others in life and
your unconscious is trying to help you see that. (ackroyd)
if
you are doing the sacrificing, the sacrificed represents
a part of the personality that you have either given
up or should give up. if an animal is being slain, it
represents an instinct or urge that you need to get
rid of. if the sacrifice is violent, you have some feelings
of guilt and you are punishing yourself. (ackroyd)
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sea
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represents
the unconscious. going out to sea symbolizes exploring
the unconscious. (ackroyd)
the
sea can symbolize the mother, either your own or Mother
Nature. drowning could
signify being repressed by an overbearing mother. (ackroyd)
the
sea could represent creative potential. in mythology,
water existed before life was created, and the creator
god fought with the sea goddess for the right to create
life. the god killed to goddess and created life from
her dismembered body. in more psychological terms, the
sea could symbolize potential to realize and utilize
the true self. (ackroyd)
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search
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if
the dream shows what you are seeking, it may be the
key to your happiness. for younger people (under 35),
it's usually material goods and money. for those older
than 35, it's usually love or something else that money
can't buy. (ackroyd)
the
dream may indicate whether or not the search is good.
it could tell you that what you seek is unattainable,
and that your goals need to be reconsidered. (ackroyd)
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separation
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there
are many kinds of "parting" dreams, like traveling
fast in a vehicle away from the familiar, running or walking
through a dark house or park, or coming to a
fork in the road and choosing one path or another. your
dreaming mind is letting you know that something needs
to be done. when separating from a relationship in a dream,
this may signal that something is not quite right and
you need to pay attention in your waking life. (pliskin)
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seven
(7)
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symbolizes
time for a change, as in a "seven year itch."
(ackroyd)
ackroyd's
book also suggested that the number seven is a symbol
of completeness because there are "seven planets
in the solar system." i'm not so sure about this
one, because last i checked there were nine planets.
-andrea
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sex
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some
of our earlier dreams about sex may have been triggered
by the physiological changes taking place in our bodies
during puberty. (pliskin)
expression
of sexual desire. these dreams may show patterns in
your sexual relationships, like what kind of people
attract you and so forth. (ackroyd)
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dreams
where you're forced to have sex or feel otherwise violated
could be a repressed memory of past abuse. (pliskin)
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dreams
where you're having sex and you're interrupted by anything,
be it a fire alarm or an earthquake, could signify your
fear of intimacy. you may feel that you don't deserve
pleasure. or you could be sending yourself a message that
there is a relationship of situation that isn't right
and must be rid of. (pliskin)
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it
is possible to achieve orgasm during a dream, although
it hasn't yet been proven that it is from the dream itself.
(pliskin)
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you're
getting what you want even in your dreams. or it's only
in your dreams that your sex life is pleasurable. (pliskin)
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dreams
that feel like the first time could be messages that there
are important beginnings before us. (pliskin)
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could
be because of the setting, such as in public. this might
reflect a feeling of frustration in your waking life with
a partner or with a totally unrelated, nonsexual situation.
(pliskin)
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it
may feel safer to risk being rejected or accepted by a
stranger rather than someone for whom we have deep feelings.
dreaming of sex with a stranger could also be a message
you're sending to yourself that you long to get to know
hidden parts of yourself. (pliskin)
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can
be simple wish fulfillment, or a way of incorporating
their talent into you. (pliskin)
the
celebrities in the dreams could be stand-ins for people
in your everyday life. (pliskin)
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if
you're straight and you have a homosexual encounter
in your dream, it doesn't automatically mean that you're
gay. recurrent dreams like this may mean that you're
uncomfortable with a lifestyle choice. dreaming about
a gay experience means it's ok to be attracted to all
sorts of people. (pliskin)
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you
have a wish to return to parental comfort and security.
a man dreaming of having sex with his mother could be
a way of him getting in touch with his feminine side.
likewise if a woman dreams of having sex with her father,
that's a way of her getting in touch with her masculine
side. although unpleasant, these dreams are common and
are no cause for alarm. (pliskin)
if
the dreams are violent or coercive, it could be a repressed
memory of past events. (pliskin)
a
man dreaming of incest with his mother may express a
hidden Oedipus complex, perhaps repressed since childhood.
a woman dreaming of incest with her father may express
a hidden Electra complex, also perhaps repressed since
childhood. (ackroyd)
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shadows
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this
represents part of ourselves we keep hidden. we may
be too afraid to bring vulnerable parts of ourselves
into the light of day. our parents may have taught us
that there were certain behaviors that were unacceptable,
and we hide them, or send them to the shadows. the appearance
of the scary shadow
in our dreams could be apositive thing by reintroducing
the cast-off parts of the self in an effort to make
us whole. (pliskin)
Jung:
"the shadow" is one of jung's aspects of self.
it is the instinctive or weaker side of our nature,
and provokes negative reactions such as fear and anger.
its appearance in dreams can suggest we need to exercise
more control over our weaknesses. (pliskin)
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feminine
symbol, representing the mother or women in general.
(ackroyd)
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shoulders
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if
you have a lot of tension in your shoulders in dreams,
it may be carried over from real life. you should evaluate
what's going on in the unconscious. (ackroyd)
if
your shoulders are carrying a burden, it represents
anxieties in the unconscious. get rid of them. (ackroyd)
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signs
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signs
of all kinds (road signs, street signs) and slogans of
all kinds can suddenly appear in our dreams telling us
we're going the wrong way or that we're on the right track.
they can be straightforward, like an arrow sign, or be
more like those automobile vanity plates that say 4U or
ILUVU. (pliskin)
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silver
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symbolizes
something valuable with respect to personal development.
(ackroyd)
silver
is associated with the moon, could symbolize the unconscious
of the feminine aspect of the personality. (ackroyd)
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sinking
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see
dying.
could
be a symbol of depression. sinking in water represents
being too attached to your mother. if a ship is sinking,
it symbolizes the end of something in your life, like
a relationship. (ackroyd)
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sleeping
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whatever
is sleeping in the dream represents a part of your unconscious
that needs to be 'woken up' and expressed. it also symbolizes
a peaceful state where you are one with your true self.
(ackroyd)
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smoking
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substitutes
for other satisfactions, like sex. the dream may be
asking you to think about the self image you're trying
to show by smoking. (ackroyd)
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snake
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symbol
of evil, going back to ancient Christian and Jewish
scriptures. could also symbolize sexuality. if the snake
is guarding something, that may be your true self. you
need to get past the snake to get to your true self.
(ackroyd)
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speechlessness
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dreams
where you try to speak and nothing comes out of your
mouth are very common. this may be an indication that
you're not telling the truth about something either
to yourself or to someone else. or maybe someone else
is not telling the truth to you and you're hesitant
to recognize it. (pliskin)
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spider
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Freud:
in life, they spiders are feared and disliked. for men,
they could represent the mother, someone who on some
level is feared. (ackroyd)
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stealing
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you're
ready to reach out toward your goals, but
there's a part of you that's afraid someone will try
to stop you. (pliskin)
you
have a need that is not being met. or, it could be a
re-enactment of an actual theft you committed. (ackroyd)
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might
represent anger towards that person. (pliskin)
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if
you're stealing money, the money could represent the
confidence you need to go after what you want. (pliskin)
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stone
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see
rock.
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storm
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symbolizes
conflict, either external or internal. could also be
a symbol of an outburst of emotion. an outburst may
be necessary to advance to a new phase in life. (ackroyd)
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studying
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usually,
when we go to take tests in dreams, we are grossly unprepared.
this may mirror a real-life situation where we feel
unprepared for a situation in which we will be supervised.
we feel frustrated during these dreams because we anticipate
failure. (pliskin)
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suicide
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if
you commit suicide in a dream, it may represent a feeling
or problem that you can't cope with any longer. if you
see someone else commit suicide, there is a part of
your unconsious that is desperate for attention. if
that person is close to you, you may harbour hidden
hatred feelings toward them. (ackroyd)
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sun
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symbol
of the self. or it could represent intelligence. as
the moon is associated with mother and feminity, the
sun is associated with father and masculinity. (ackroyd)
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Freud:
a 'typical dream', represents desire for freedom of childhood.
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